The Love Dare

A while ago, I decided to buy the book "The Love Dare," from the Christian movie "Fireproof". I'm very bad at keeping secrets and planning out surprises. They usually don't end up being a surprise in the end. But, I bought the book secretly, then had Tyson watch "Fireproof" with me, so that at the end of the challenge he would know what I was talking about with the book. At the end he said, "that would be really neat if there was a real book where we could do this together." I bit my tounge and just nodded. So, here I am, continuing on with "The Love Dare", Tyson unknowing, and trying to strengthen our new foundation of a relationship.

There are truly some amazing principles and quotes in that book. I started it a few months ago, and did the first 10 days, but then unfortunately got lazy. But I started it again a few days ago and have felt a sense of strength in our marriage. He has also been extra helpful, loving, and uplifting to me. I come home and things are done that I never mentioned or asked him to do. We have had more loving passion. We have laughed more. I love him more deeply each day.

"Marriage is a beautiful mystery created by God, joining two lives together as one. This not only happens physically but spiritually and emotionally. You start off sharing the same house, the same bed, the same last name. Your identity as individuals has been joined into one. When your spousegoes through a tragedy, both of you feel it. When you find success at your job, both of you rejoice. When you look at your mate, you're looking at a part of you. So treat her well. Speak highly of him. Nourish and cherish the love of your life."

I dare each of you, whether you have the most ideal or most rough marriage, to try the Love Dare. It will strengthen your marriage regardless.